How to Host a Dinner Party

1. Know Your Dinner Party Audience

The best way to ensure your dinner party goes as smoothly as possible is to get a good idea of what your audience likes, dislikes, and can or can't eat. This may be your event, 
but more often than not, it's your dinner party guests' satisfaction levels that will make all the difference.

The most important thing is dietary requirements. Nothing derails a dinner party faster than someone who has an allergic reaction to something you've cooked. Also, remember to check if there are any vegans or vegetarians on the guest list. It's always worth cooking a separate meal without meat or animal products; if there are, your guests will always appreciate it.

2. Play it safe

You might feel like your dinner party is your time to shine as a chef. While this may be the case, it might not be the best time to try a new, bold, delicate or complex dish that you've never cooked before. Any goodwill you'd gain for opting for something new can be quickly and swiftly undone if it tastes awful!

If you can cook something relatively straightforward, but cook it really well, that's the best way to get your guests on your side. You can always unleash your creativity through other avenues, such as adventurous presentation, perhaps, or by learning a couple of new cocktails to entice your guests through the door.

3. Pick Out Some Appropriate Music

One of the most important pillars of any good dinner party is the mood. Setting a relaxed atmosphere is something that all good bars and restaurants do, so you'll want to try to imitate them as much as you can, without copying them entirely.

Perhaps the best way of doing this is to pick out the right music for the event. You'll want to go for something muted, gentle and subtle—as much as you might enjoy heavy metal or techno, these genres have the potential for upending conversation.

Having lyrics rather than instrumental music isn't a bad thing, just make sure they don't detract from your guests chatting.

Try to pick something that's uniquely you. Muzak and lounge jazz are all very well, but they can be a little generic for a more intimate dinner party.

4. Plan it out

No one wants to come to a dinner party, sit down for a meal and then just depart afterwards. No, they want to be wined and dined, entertained and engaged with by the host as they chat and eat the night away. That might sound like a lot of work, but it actually isn't—as long as you plan.

When your guests arrive, make sure they have a space away from the kitchen with some appetisers set out to curb their appetite. Leave them to get warmed up there for no more than 45 minutes and then invite them to the dinner table, keeping their glasses topped up as necessary. Go through starter, main, and dessert, if that's what you’ve planned.

Once everyone's plates are licked clean from your spectacular cooking, invite them for some entertainment in the lounge or your outside space—be it cards, board games, or simple conversation before they head home.

5. Remember to Enjoy Yourself!

Sure, a lot of effort goes into a dinner party, but all that work is worth very little if you aren't enjoying yourself. Try to pick a dish that doesn't require your constant attention in the kitchen so you can get out and mingle with your guests; you'll find it easier to relax that way, and your guests will appreciate your company.

Don't be afraid to ask your guests for a little help with some smaller and less messy tasks if things are getting overwhelming—just little jobs like putting some things back in the fridge from the workspace and grabbing the salt from a shelf. They'll more than likely be happy to help.

Finally—and we know it can be hard—try not to get too stressed! Almost every accident or mishap can be fixed, so learn to take it in your stride and enjoy your dinner party!